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The North Carolina mom has a 6-year-old daughter, and plans to do just that. \"I also want her, and other girls, to learn to negotiate at an early age,\" she said.

So if a parent thinks the sitter's rate it too high, she suggests the teens respond with suggestions for other duties they can perform to make it an agreeable situation for both parties.

\"You know how when you come home to the sitter and kids and it looks like a bomb went off?\" Owen said. \"I'd gladly pay extra to come home to a neat and tidy house.\"

She also suggested folding laundry as an example of how to negotiate a higher rate.

But, in the end, this isn't really about babysitting, not to Owen. Because babysitting is often the first paying job teen girls have, she thinks it sets a foundation for later in life.

\"I was never taught how to negotiate,\" she said, \"but you can bet I'll teach it my kids. This isn't something you learn at school. It has to be taught at home. If we want to close the pay gap [between women and men], the younger they learn, the better.\"

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