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\"Never have five letters cut so deep, and they weren't even directed at me....it was just an overly simplistic statement that spoke volumes,\" he wrote. \"And because I know him so well, and because I have pretty good handle on him after raising him for eleven years, I know this disconnect makes him feel lonely, and it makes him sad.\"

Cornelius told ABC News he hoped his post \"starts a conversation.\" He hopes parents will speak with their kids about inclusion and that educators will foster peer relationships between students in the classroom. Already, Cornelius said, four high schools in Kansas City are using the Facebook post in lessons where the students will write letters to Christopher.

The now-hopeful dad said he expects the cards to start rolling in on Friday, and he can't wait to see Christopher's reaction. \"Coincidentally, Chris asked me about mail last week, and about never getting any mail.\"

\"PHOTO:
Bob Cornelius
PHOTO: Christopher Cornelius, age 11. "This is my son, Christopher....he's about to make a lot of friends..." his dad wrote on Facebook.
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Referencing a recent news story where a Florida State football player joined the table of a child with autism who was sitting alone, Cornelius wondered why that one act of kindness made national headlines. \"It tells me exclusion is still the norm,\" he said. \"Being kind should not be a national news story.\"

Cornelius went so far as posting his address for anyone who wants to send a card to Christopher.

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