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\"Surround yourself with good people and, of course, you need people that will help you, but they can't do everything for you,\" she added. \"You have to be in mix of it.\"

Famous for writing through heartbreak in her music, Blige said being on tour has been cathartic for her.

\"It's been so healthy for me because this is where I bring all my pain,\" she said. \"I bring it to the stage ... and my fans are there. They come to the show with all of their issues or trials and tribulations and this is where we're healing.

\"I have to stay strong and I have to be the strength for myself,\" Blige said. \"I had to save myself and I'm saving myself now.\"

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