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Someone who has played a large role in shaping Falcone's comedy career was his father, Steve, who also was the inspiration for Falcone's new book, \"Being a Dad Is Weird.\"

Falcone said his book just \"sort of came out\" as he was writing stories about his father.

\"I used to in a good-natured way kind of roast my dad at parties and tell stories about the crazy stuff he would do and that we would do together, and then I was like, 'Oh, maybe I'm telling these stories too much,'\" Falcone said. \"So I decided to start writing them down and I did, and the book just sort of came out. I never intended for it to get published. It's sort of shocking.\"

Falcone grew up in a house full of boys, but now, with his and McCarthy's two daughters, he is in a home full of females. \"I'm outgunned at the house for sure,\" he said.

\"Melissa and I try to keep our lives really normal,\" Falcone said.

And one life lesson from his father that Falcone said he tries to pass on to his children is: \"Don't sweat the small stuff. Be happy. It's a choice. I try to make sure the girls know if you try to be happy and you're kind every day, you've won.\"

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