Neither Union, 46, who has been open about her fertility struggles, nor Wade, 36, went public with the pregnancy until the day after Kaavia's birth on Nov. 7. She is the first child for the couple, who wed in 2014, though both are raising Wade's three sons from previous relationships. Despite their joy about the new addition, some of the reactions on social media, Wade told Winfrey, were painful for them to digest.
\"The most hurtful thing was once we had our baby and everyone started to talk about, 'Why is she in the bed, holding the baby? Why's she got a gown on? Why's she acting like she just had a baby?'\" he recalled. \"Once again, people are uneducated on the process and why we decided to go skin-to-skin as soon as our baby came out.\"
In 2017, the actress wrote in her memoir, \"We're Going to Need More Wine,\" that over the course of three years, she'd had \"eight or nine\" miscarriages and felt \"my body has been a prisoner of trying to get pregnant.\" This past August she revealed that she'd been diagnosed with adenomyosis, a form of endometriosis that can result in infertility.
\"Towards the end of my fertility journey, I finally got some answers, because everyone had just sort of chalked it up to ‘You’re a career woman, you’ve prioritized your career, you waited too long and now you’re just too old to have a kid,'\" she said. \"'And that’s on you for wanting a career.'\"
\"The reality is I actually have adenomyosis,” she added. \"There is nothing you can do about adenomyosis. The gag is that I had adenomyosis in my early 20s.\"
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