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She added, \"After talking so much, and just expend, expending, expending, to sit with myself and just listen. Our lives are so full of distractions; you go from one distraction to another.”

Getting away allowed Nyong'o to refuel and focus.

“It was like clarity,\" she said. \"And I was just, like, wow. I imagine that people sometimes get that from drugs. But it was really nice to get that just from spending time with myself.”

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Nyong'o also dished on her upcoming film from \"Get Out\" director Jordan Peele. The actress said working with Peele actually brought her to tears.

“[Peele] asked me, ‘What is your process as an actor? What do you need from a director?'\" she said. \"And I just started to cry. I was like, ‘I’ve never been asked that before.’ I could just tell in that question was a man who understood what it meant to be an actor.\"

Marie Claire’s March 2019 issue featuring Nyong'o hits newsstands Feb 19.

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