Take it from Snooki: Don't stress about motherhood - Good Morning America

In 2012, Polizzi gave birth to her first child, Lorenzo.

She recalls living in the basement of her now-husband Jionni LaValle's mother’s house at the time and being anxious about what was to come.

“I was super nervous because it was my first child,” she said

At the time, she was 24 years old and, like many people, had a vision of how she thought her life would play out.

“I knew [Jionni] was the one, but I wanted to get married first and then be together for a year and then have a baby,” she said.

Although it didn’t go exactly as planned, it would all work out in the end.

“I think it was the immaturity of me that was nervous…and then, once I had Lorenzo, I knew what to do,\" she said. “I would tell myself to not be so nervous and stop stressing out because 'you’re going to be fine.'\"

3. Embrace the little things

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A post shared by Nicole \"Snooki\" Polizzi (@snooki) on Jun 11, 2015 at 10:28am PDT

Polizzi was born in Chile and adopted as an infant. She grew up in Marlboro, New York, where she also attended high school.

It was around this time that she received the popular nickname. In an interview with Rachael Ray, Polizzi revealed that in eighth grade, her friends started calling her Snooki because she was the first to kiss a boy. The nickname is based off a character in the film “Save the Last Dance.”

“My girls started calling me Snooki and it just stuck ever since,” she said.

Throughout high school and college, Polizzi took up cheerleading. She was even captain of her high school cheer squad.

“Cheerleading was my sport,\" she said. \"It was my outlet. I loved it.”

She looks back fondly on her high school years and said she sometimes wishes she could go back to relive one of the best times of her life.

4. Make time for yourself

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A post shared by Nicole \"Snooki\" Polizzi (@snooki) on Nov 29, 2017 at 5:14pm PST

In 2014, Polizzi married LaValle, who she describes as the love of her life.

“I wanted our wedding to be very old school and traditional. … I mean, it looks like we got married in the 40s, which I love.”

Today, the couple has two children with a third on the way.

With her busy life as a mom and entrepreneur, she has one piece of advice: make time for yourself.

“We never go on dates because we are so busy with the kids and working…we need to make time for ourselves.”

5. Always cherish friendships that are real

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True friends are hard to come by, but Polizzi has found a real friendship with “Jersey Shore” co-star Jennifer Farley, also known as JWoww. The two became friends and have since collaborated on several projects, including their own MTV show “Snooki & JWoww,” which aired from 2012 to 2015.

Today the reality stars host their own digital series, “Moms With Attitude,” which often incorporates Polizzi’s daughter Giovanna and Farley’s daughter Meilani.

“I love shooting it with her because she’s my best friend,” Polizzi explained. “I feel like every year we get closer and closer, so always cherish friendships that are real.”

6. Don't second guess yourself

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A post shared by Nicole \"Snooki\" Polizzi (@snooki) on Oct 13, 2018 at 8:44am PDT

Polizzi opened The Snooki Shop in the fall 2018. The store sells a variety of clothing and accessories that she would describe as a mix of Nicole and Snooki. From animal prints to comfortable “mawma” wear, The Snooki Shop has it all.

“I always wanted to do my own store, I just never had the time,\" Polizzi said. \"I love clothes, so I thought just opening my own store would be a dream come true.”

What has running her own business has taught her?

“Just go with it and see what happens,” she said. “If you second guess [yourself], then it just delays the process and it becomes more stressful.”

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