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\"Haters are irrelevant to me,\" she said. \"It’s like Brene Brown says: I’m not making this work for people who aren’t in the arena. Haters don’t mean anything to me because they are not my people.\"

She also said she has \"no idea\" whether or not she is a good stepmother. \"I mean, sometimes that piece gets complicated when there are two teenage girls,\" she told the Sunday Times, referring to her daughter, Apple, and Falchuk's daughter, Isabella.

\"If you’re not all drinking the same Kool-Aid, it can be tough. I do think, though, at the end of the day, everyone wants the same thing, which is to feel love and be accepted,\" she added.

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Paltrow also reflected on something she's realized as she has grown older.

“I guess the only regret is that I had to turn 40 to start getting my head out of my a--,\" she said. \"What if I’d been 30? Twenty? Still, I can only imagine in my fifties how much better it is all going to get.\"

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