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⁣⁣The majority of the comments on the post, Fladager said, were supportive of her parenting style. She told \"GMA\" she parents her son differently than she does her six-year-old daughter, who has been more independent since birth.

Using different styles for different children is something Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, a psychologist and pediatric mental health expert, encourages.

\"There are all kinds of parenting and none are bad,\" Capanna-Hodge said. \"We can't love our children too much.\"

With that in mind, however, she stressed the importance of steering our children toward independence. She equated parenting to coaching.

\"A good coach doesn't always tell you what to do, they cue you to have your own response,\" Capanna-Hodge told \"GMA.\" \"It's important to teach children stress management tools -- deep breaths, count backwards -- so they don't become over reliant.\"

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PHOTO: Caitlin Fladager and her four-year-old son.
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As for Fladager, she's helping him gain independence by sending him to preschool for six hours a day, three days per week. Despite their close relationship, she said he had no trouble separating from her.

\"I was happy to learn I'm not alone,\" she said of all the support for her post. \"It makes me feel like I'm going in the right direction.\"

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