Fisher was 60 years old when she died unexpectedly after suffering cardiac arrest; her mother, actress Debbie Reynolds, died the next day from a stroke.
On Christmas, Lourd, 27, penned an honest message about grief to her 1.3 million Instagram followers.
\"Sending my love to everyone who has lost someone they loved and is missing them a little extra today. I see you. It’s okay if everything ain’t all merry and bright. It can be a mix of all of it. And it’s all okay,\" she wrote. \"Feel all the feelings - the good and the not so good. Eat something delish they used to love. Put on one of their favorite songs. Tell a story about them. Cry about them. Call one of their friends you haven’t talked to in a while. Be kind and patient with yourself. Don’t grieve in silence. You’re not alone.\"
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