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\"When I strip myself of the norms that society has pushed on me ... I have become the most complete and authentic version of myself,\" they said.

\"If I had listened to the patriarchy, my life would have never changed,\" the 28-year-old noted. \"My gender, my pronouns would have never changed. I probably would have been married to a man with kids doing the thing that I was raised to believe I should do.\"

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