Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle have become the targets of a toxic social media culture pitting them against one another, and now, Duchess of York Sarah Ferguson is weighing in, comparing the online baiting to what the media did with her and Princess Diana.
Women, in particular, are constantly pitted against and compared with each other in a way that reminds me of how people tried to portray Diana and me all the time as rivals, which is something neither of us ever really felt.
Ferguson wrote a candid letter in Hello! magazine on Monday, taking aim at what she calls the “sewer” of social media.
“It’s time to confront head on the fact that much of social media has become a sewer,” she wrote. “Take a look at any website, and you’ll see extraordinarily abusive comments aimed not only at people in the public eye but also other internet users. Bullying, sniping, bitching, even the most appalling sexism, racism and homophobia are commonplace — it seems that online, anything goes.
“Women, in particular, are constantly pitted against and compared with each other in a way that reminds me of how people tried to portray Diana and me all the time as rivals, which is something neither of us ever really felt,” she continued.
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Many royal watchers read York’s pointed essay as a not-so-veiled reference to a media-driven divide playing out between the Duchess of Cambridge and the Duchess of Sussex.
"She absolutely is referring to the treatment of Meghan and Kate," royal contributor Imogen Lloyd Webber told “GMA.” "Certainly there are parallels between the relationship that Kate and Meghan have and Diana and Fergie had.”
"It’s safe to say that when the Duchess of York and the Princess of Wales were around, social media didn’t exist and this was always being played out in the newspapers," Hello! magazine’s royal correspondent, Emily Nash, told "Good Morning America." "Nowadays we are seeing something very similar online with their fans pitted against each other."
The British media reported last month about rumored rivalries between the royal sisters-in-law and difficulties Meghan is facing as she adjusts to her new life as a member of England's royal family.
“This is something that we all need to look at and deal with,” Weber said. “Kensington Palace has been deleting multiple comments about Meghan and Kate for some time now and this online discourse has gotten very bitter.”
Bullying, sniping, bitching even the most appalling sexism, racism and homophobia are commonplace online. Enough is enough. Social media firms and all of us as individuals need to take a stand #HelloToKindess @hellomag https://t.co/HsQEzzaovQ pic.twitter.com/ATth3NaLjN— Sarah Ferguson (@SarahTheDuchess) February 11, 2019
Kensington Palace aides devote hours each week to moderating and deleting violent, sexist and racist comments directed at Markle and Middleton and the palace has even turned to Instagram for help, according to a report in Hello! magazine.
"A lot of it is very petty — a lot of body shaming and criticizing how they walk, how they look — and a lot of this is coming from women," Nash said of the criticisms directed at the royals. "Meghan is a newcomer so there is a lot more scrutiny on her."
"It feels like it has reached a tipping point now and it can’t go on like this," she added.
Ferguson's pointed essay was an endorsement of the magazine's #HellotoKindness campaign, an effort launched last month to "champion positivity online" and quell toxic bullying and negative comments.
The campaign asks readers to ask themselves three questions before posting a comment online: Is it friendly? Is it kind? Would you say it in real life?
I've also been told #HelloToKindness should start at home. It did. In response to the negative impact trolling on our platforms is having on us all - not just on the Duchesses. I've said in interviews this week that I feel sections of the media need to raise their game, FWIW.— Emily Nash (@emynash) January 29, 2019
"Let's all try to think before we post. Let's all try to treat each other a little more gently," she wrote, calling for compassion.
Ferguson called on tech firms, news website and social media companies to do much more “to take a stand against online abuse, rather than shrugging their shoulders.”
“I believe that it's time to take a stand,” she wrote. “This isn’t about free speech. The truth is, it's not acceptable to pit women against one another all the time. It's not acceptable to troll other people viciously online.”