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\"I was raised by society to dream of my wedding, but I wish I had been dreaming of my life,\" Ross said. \"There are so many ways to curate happiness, find love and create a family, and we don’t talk about them. It creates so much shame and judgement.\"

Just because Ross is enjoying what life has to offer by herself -- being a successful actress, director, producer, businesswoman and fashionista -- doesn’t mean there isn’t a yearning for a partner to experience life with.

\"People misinterpret being happily single as not wanting to be in a relationship,\" she explained.

\"Of course I want to be in a relationship, but what am I going to do?\" Ross reasoned. \"Spend all the time that I’m not [in one] moping around? No. I’m going to live my life to the fullest and I’m going to be happy right here, where I am.\"

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