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Goodwin's message resonated with other women. Many commented on her post and thousands more she said reached out to her directly, with messages like, \"I'm 30 and I thought my life was over and I couldn't apply to law school.\"

\"This was me when I got my JD at 39. I used the $$ I got for graduation and bought my china and stemware. I figured I might never have a wedding and get those gifts, and if I wanted it, I should have it. Serve myself dinner on it frequently,\" wrote one commenter on Twitter as a response to Goodwin's news.

\"I feel this so strongly. I just turned 46, never married/no kids and often feel invisible in my own life. Congrats on your amazing achievement!!,\" another wrote.

\"As a 40+ single never married woman, I've learned to flip the narrative about women like us. YOU are the apex of womanhood. Fully liberated w/choices and life that our female ancestors couldn't even fathom. You represent the fullest potential of womankind. Congratulations!!,\" a third Twitter user wrote.

\"When my daughter, who is 24 and single told me she was saving up for a house I told her I'd give her a housewarming shower when she buys her house. That needs celebrating, just like YOU!! Well done and congratulations!,\" a fourth commented.

Goodwin described the response to her post as both heartwarming and overwhelming, saying, \"I didn't expect that anyone outside of my family and friends would actually like it or tweet it.\"

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PHOTO: Amber Goodwin, right, poses with fellow 2021 law school graduate Kirsty Liedman.
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\"I consider myself brave for going back to law school at 38 and not really going back with a plan of what I would do once I got out of law school,\" she said. \"A lot of times people, especially women and Black women, are not celebrated while we're doing things. We're celebrated maybe when we've made it and are winning big cases as an attorney or doing other things like getting married or having kids.\"

\"And a lot of times things like [graduating law school] aren't just seen as a win for someone who is 41 years old,'\" Goodwin added. \"This gave me a sense that people were standing right next to me as I was getting really great news and times when I was maybe not feeling as sure of myself.\"

Goodwin's message comes at a time of changing demographics in the United States, where more women are marrying later in life, if at all.

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PHOTO: Amber Goodwin testifies before Congress during her second year of law school.
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The median age of first marriage has been steadily increasing, and around 16% of Americans get to their late 40s without having ever been married, according to the U.S. Census Bureau.

Last year there were approximately 40 million never-married women ages 15 and older in the U.S., compared to 27 million in 2000, according to the Census Bureau.

Goodwin explained that her post does not mean that she never wants to get married or have kids, but just that she is not going to wait for those moments to celebrate herself.

Photo of descendant of a slave graduating from law school in 18 days outside of the building that both enslaved our ancestors and gave us our freedom. I'll never stop fighting for the liberation of all people. This law degree is a new tool in the tool box against oppression. pic.twitter.com/K9CJhEI6rz

— Amber Goodwin (@amberkgoodwin) May 19, 2021

\"I want everything, but just because I'm 41 and haven't accomplished some of those things doesn't mean that my life is failure,\" she said. \"I think everyone's life should be validated and celebrated.\"

\"I hope that people take away that there's no one way to live the life you have and life should be lived and celebrated literally every single day,\" Goodwin said of her message to women.

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