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\"It's a very emotional time,\" Philip said. \"I missed all the holidays. Thankfully, this time round was just under a year so I didn't have to miss birthdays as well.\"

\"Stepping out of quarantine and getting to see the girls, that was the greatest thing,\" he added.

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