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Johnson's post, which she shared on her 21st Century SAHM Facebook page, has received thousands of likes and garnered hundreds of comments from moms who thanked her for her honesty.

\"Thanks for being real and honest. And saying the things no one does. You are absolutely right. No one can do it all alone,\" wrote one commenter.

\"Thank you for this, exactly how I am feeling lately,\" wrote another.

Johnson, whose children are ages 8, 10 and 12, said she wanted her post to encapsulate how she and the moms she hears from are feeling, especially after two years of the pandemic, when many moms had to add virtual learning teacher to their already long list of responsibilities.

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PHOTO: Karen Johnson, a mom of three in Wisconsin, wrote a viral Facebook post about trying to do it all as a mom.
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\"I think all parents, but moms especially, need to hear that you cannot do it all,\" Johnson told \"Good Morning America.\" \"I think we're fed this this myth that it's attainable, and every mom who I know personally, who works full time, feels really guilty about a lot of things.\"

\"So sometimes we need to hear it from other moms who say, 'I did a million things and I was super productive, but I didn't care for my kids, so the next day I'll focus on that,'\" she said. \"I think [my Facebook post] helped a lot of women who are also drowning and feeling overwhelmed just kind of take a breath and be like, 'I'm doing OK.'\"

Due largely to the increased child care demands brought on by the pandemic, around 3.5 million moms of school-age children have left active work, shifting into paid or unpaid leave, losing their job or exiting the labor market all together, according to the U.S. Census Bureau.

During the pandemic, moms with children ages 12 and under spent, on average, eight hours a day on child care, while at the same time working an average of six hours per day in their jobs, according to a Brookings Institution analysis of data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics.

Johnson said she hopes that moms are reminded through her post to be proud of the things they accomplish each day, even as they feel they're trying to balance a million spinning plates.

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PHOTO: Karen Johnson, a mom of three in Wisconsin, wrote a viral Facebook post about trying to do it all as a mom.
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\"Every mom I know is working hard,\" said Johnson. \"[Moms] should be able to, at the end of the day, think about who you are and what you've accomplished, think about your people that are asleep in their beds because you got them through another day and know that you're doing a good job.\"

\"Even if your teenager was a total jerk today or you feel like you're failing because your toddler peed on the rug at grandma's house, you're doing a good job,\" she said.

\"You can't do it all. None of us can. Be proud of what you do -- however long or short that list is -- because tomorrow's another day with another list,\" she added. \"And you'll rock it tomorrow, in some ways. And in some ways, you won't.Because that's motherhood.\"

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